Wait until Monday

Suppose diagnosed, treatment assignment. But there were questions to which there are no answers. How do live? Will never be as before? Or is it a matter of time? And how long to wait? And when it becomes clear? ..

Such issues on the road to recovery arises million. And each of them disturbing, but all of them together is not that sleep - do not give to live in peace. But even during this period is not the simplest possible and necessary to find the reasons for joy.

To doctors will not treat?

That a man went to the doctor at all (even in connection with such an intimate question) - is a great joy. As a rule, our representatives of the stronger sex often unnecessary heroism, refusing contact with physicians. Often they come to the doctor when the disease is already running strongly.

The explanation is simple: in the field of sexuality for men is important to look like a hero, and for many of them is easier to opt out of sex, this masking fatigue, something important concern or extra glass of alcohol.

So does about 20 percent. This is one in five, hardly suspecting at the possible inconsistency.

The man who went in a similar situation to the appropriate specialist, clearly ready to be engaged with their health (and, it seems, really appreciate it). If need be, this will go to other doctors and a psychologist, and eventually will do everything necessary to restore his powers. And it is very important to him in this in any case do not interfere.

Less anxiety

Even the most temperamental person is reduced sexual desire, if he gets into a situation of anxiety and uncertainty. It is there now and is your man: the diagnosis has been made, treatment assignment, but the results still have to wait. Therefore, you should in no way aggravate his condition.

Heroism is likely to cause him to be silent and not talk to you about their excitement and doubt.

If your case to be that way, do not insist, let him deal with the test itself: when treatment is over and will result, it will be a wonderful additional reason for him to feel a genuine sense of pride. And if a man still dare to ask, are you confident in the successful outcome and qualifications of the doctor and whether you love him, if something goes wrong, be sure to reassure, reassure her love.

Nervous interview

Clearly, it is difficult not only to your man but you. And even if his words you are fully supported in the head still climb the unpleasant thoughts.

But you know how to wait! To unsettling atmosphere in your home is not thickened, worth a regular basis (at least half an hour a day) to reminisce.

We all have occurred in the life periods of change, and not always was immediately clear how they will than be completed. They were you.

You were interviewed to get a new job? Preparing to move? Pregnant? Wrote a diploma? Remember your state in these moments waiting. You do not believe for one hundred percent that the protection on the top five, and the new work will be the best in the world. But you want it! And you sincerely hoped that you bypassed all the problems pregnant . What new apartment everything will be better than the old one.

You only need to learn to wait

Agree, not always possible to accelerate or change what is happening (whatever it was). But to gain strength and to wait quite real. Remember, you keep yourself in the above situations? What dream is raised myself up, presenting positive images, such as improving the atmosphere around you?

Do you remember how to invent more and more new things, when all current ended? As a mantra repeated itself optimists "succeed"? Memories will help develop a new strategy, and it helps to live in uncertainty and feel good at the same time.

Your calm, confidence and good humor necessarily be passed to the man. You're not strangers , and it means a lot.