Fluke or a trend?

The problem of erectile dysfunction is facing up to a third of all men believe sexologists. At the same time, doctors are convinced that the return of a healthy male sexuality should play a crucial role the woman. However, it is important to be able to distinguish from random misfire situation requiring serious help.

Seek stronger sex

The bulk of the stronger sex afraid to admit that in their sexual problems. So that in the "running" cases, a man can "camouflage" them, not only referring to the imaginary fatigue (learn proverbial headache, which we so often put the blame?). But especially coming home late and even deliberately provoking scandals. This behavior of an ostrich burying his head in the sand to not only see the problems.

Suspecting your partner have problems with erectile dysfunction, it is important to determine what you are experiencing.

Of course, it is best to just show it to the doctor. But he was already big, and one sound of his voice to send her husband to the clinic, most likely will not work. Then what do you do? That's right: help. Help, no matter what.

Good tricks

Vernon would tactics friendly participation in the resolution of the problem, which in a sense applies to both. But daring to assist representatives of the stronger sex, should know that men can get pretty touchy when trying to engage them in conversations on these topics. With some better not to speak at all - will not be much good, on the contrary, people just closed. In such cases it is only rely on your understanding of his psycho, correct definition of the boundaries of what is permitted and, of course, the vaunted women's intuition.

If traditional - verbal - ineffective means of communication, is to resort to indirect, hidden and indirect.

Yes, slip (ie, of course, "accidentally" leave) open at the right place with useful magazine article "relating " to mention in passing the story friend, whose husband once went to a doctor ... ( and so on). Use for the benefit of the whole arsenal of tricks imperceptible nudges manipulation and covert influence. After all, you believe that you and he is really necessary?

Tell me, man!

Decent and often effective way - to complain that you were at the doctor in connection with the alleged problem you are having, and he asked the next time come along with you as your case be corrected only if this process involved both partners. Man, if you can help someone, usually manifests itself from the best side, and if it comes close and loved one - even more so. And as a specialist, getting him such a patient will be able to discreetly draw him into conversation, interest and discussion of details so gradually begin to address the problem. Naturally, a doctor should agree on everything in advance.

To talk about "the most important" matter what words you will use.

For example, it is necessary to speak of a "correction" and not a "treatment." And in general, the words and pay more attention to the terms and use them carefully, avoiding the possibility of frightening medical terminology and replacing the "doctor" , "expert " or "consultant." For the same reason would be nice if the doctor - that is, of course, an expert! - Hold a reception - that is, of course, meet up for a chat! - At least not in a white coat and perfect, if not in a clinic or hospital. But to what degree to protect the partner 's only you.

Million agony

It is clear that if a woman after a failed sexual intercourse does not keep emotions and begin to blame, shame, shame its proved unequal partner, exacerbating his psychological discomfort, the business can reach progressive erectile dysfunction. But erection failures can occur in otherwise physically healthy people without any problems, including psychological.

Woman should clearly understand how broad palette of paints gloomy that can cause that. Lack of sleep for three nights in a row. Broil or even disagreement with an old friend. Misunderstanding at work. Unsuccessful or not fully successful negotiations.

And yet - problems with their parents, too long tube on the way to the office, barely noticeable scratch on the door of the new machine, the experience of an old dog 's health, not to mention favorite people finally even which came seemingly out of nowhere unpleasant childhood memory ...

True Friends - oysters

How do you determine who is responsible for what you left without pleasure - chief villain or physiology? Misfire occurred - constant development of male illness or accidental failure due to a bad mood? Most often, erectile dysfunction due to psychophysical state man. As a rule, it can be ignored because of sexual intimacy uncomfortable or stressful situations, but also because of the so-called "men of boredom." It arises when the sense of novelty in a sexual relationship is replaced by a kind of "apathy".

Any sane woman understands that prevention is better than cure it. But a good starting point to resort to proven means of excitation sexual appetite of their partner. Perhaps in the future it will help prevent accidental misfires.

In so doing, you can try to rethink the rhythm of intimate life, activating the "playing field" and giving impetus to rebuild relations. Help and quite useful in the intimate sphere of erotic massage, aromatherapy (prompt in many drugstores and at any store for adults), skillfully selected menu (oysters, nuts, honey) and the atmosphere (bath, candles, silk underwear).

If not normal sex life, erection is unstable, then without consulting a specialist is not enough. And it is possible that you have to treat erectile dysfunction. Who is familiar with this ailment 150 million men (and in fact still on top of them as women!) And projected physicians by 2035 they will be twice as much - 300 million from the good news: it is now effectively treat the disease. Mutual desire men and women to overcome the problem can be after a successful course of treatment to return to a normal sex life with renewed vigor.