And talk about?

Whether you want a good, high-quality sex ? Any pair, without hesitation, replied in unison: "Yes, of course !" But what can and should do a modern woman to eventually former ardor of passion has not disappeared, and her lover did not admire at other women ? First you need to just talk.

Communicate in their own language!

Do lovers, many of communicating with each other, often formed their own language - they come up with each other affectionate nicknames or ridiculous to imitate baby talk or create a custom code that no one (other than themselves) can not understand. Such language may be useful in bed.

For sex and for those bodies who take active part in it, or there are medical terms or words are not very decent. Meanwhile, talking in bed about sex - separate pleasure. Therefore, the designations can come up with your own, then this will be your language, words intended only for two and understandable only two, the notation that will not utter one else except you - and this is very common.

Council. For " a bed " speech is undesirable to use "baby" words. Better to leave them home chaffed each other.

Watch his reaction!

Talking about their sexual desires better not to start right on the doorstep bedroom - it can put a man to a standstill if he was not going to "do nothing." Fantasies should be shared "among other things." Read him, for example, an excerpt from a journal article, tell us how you discuss your fantasy girlfriend that he does not know. And closely monitor the reaction.

Sex is often called the love game and talking about their desires, too, can easily turn into an exciting game.

For example, arrange a "candid evening of questions and answers", among which may well wormed and please tell us about one of his sexual fantasies. Or create their own profile, which will include, for example, questions such as: "What feelings do you call the word" sex on nature' ?","What role play in bed you would be particularly pleasant?". And to respond to it together with as much detail and openly discussing the details, options, exchanging experiences. Although, of course, just in case you have to be ready and to the fact that it did not turn out right the first time.

Council. Arrange joint viewing preselected erotic film. You will only have to whisper at the right moment in his ear that this scene turns you on.

Engage only enjoyable!

If after you have expressed their desire, the reaction should not immediately or should not do - do not be offended. Man received information he must now comprehend it, and decide how to do it. Perhaps you find yourself in his place, too, would like to have the opportunity to reflect on how to proceed (and whether to act at all). But even if you're willing to throw in the experiments, yet leave her man an opportunity not to run after you at breakneck speed. It is possible that, for example, because of its psycho or ideas about the "right" family life he would need more time than you to get used to the idea of ​​acceptability and safety for something new that has already become quite familiar. And if you had not talked about sex openly , not raining down on your partner avalanche of information - it can cause jealousy and rejection.

Do not assume that all your wishes to be fulfilled - most people have something they do not like in bed , and men have this same right as women. You also do not have to do what you dislike.

If consent to a sexual experiment is not due to him your willingness and unwillingness to hurt a partner, then no good, believe me, it will not. For the same reason there is no point to dwell on a fantasy - Diversify them and talk about it.

Council. Well, if sex eventually turn into an important topic of your conversations , which will become deeper and more openly. Nothing will be born true sexual compatibility as a true revelation and understanding.