It happens that a married man, noticed a decrease in desire, blames the monotony of their sex life. Unfortunately, sometimes it starts to look who has now left his passion is the family bed. Miracle in most cases does not happen, but trust in the family is undermined. But can it be prevented?
Of sheep and love
French researchers conducted experiments with sheep: animal received serious physical activity, and then he offered the female, which he this day already fertilized. Tired sheep did not pay any attention to the former partner (and generally not particularly interested in). However, if there appeared unfamiliar female forces in contact with her were suddenly.
Animals, this feature is necessary in order to fertilize the maximum number of females - it is inherent in their nature to save the species. Representatives of homo sapiens also experience increased arousal when ahead intimacy with a new partner. But what distinguishes man from sheep or other irrational animal that is able to give, avoid instinctively desired intimacy with another woman is not familiar to him. Because he understands: have a family that can destroy treason.
Body attached
Indeed, the family ties are themselves often hold of adultery is better than any other means. But the same family can to him and push: a man thinks that he is having problems with physical attraction, while in another case. For example, in the authoritativeness and insults, disproportionate requirements to each other and the inability to negotiate. All this and much more, "saps" love, and behind her, and desire.
Problems in bed are often associated not with physical health, they follow the problems in the relationship, and not vice versa. That is why the meeting with his mistress will not help a man increase or inclination to return to his wife. Must first deal with the head and the heart, and the body will catch up. If the problem is that her husband was worried the level of potency, you should seek the solution of the problem here.
Unhappy property
Man does not necessarily want to meet with other women, but fantasizes about it often enough. Women often do not take into account. "The sense of possessiveness," which is often associated with the uncertainty of their own desire and attraction, can cause a scandal if the husband treats the girls on the beach. Perhaps he just admired and was not going to compare these girls with his wife, but after screaming curses and accusations that desire may well arise. And even if the wife is beautiful beach girls, they will be better just because at this moment silent.
Reveler surreptitiously
And in the wake of this, in full compliance with the classic scenario may be other thoughts. Someone has it all in the mind and will . But, alas, not at all. Is it not enough described in the world literature demure - henpecked, throughout his overbearing submissive wives, but secretly changing them at every opportunity and uncomfortable situation? And with some special pleasure from the fact that the spouse cheated, punished, and masculine pride avenged.
Many such cases, and in life. Perhaps even in your surroundings is something similar. And strict spouse tend to last quite sincerely convinced that they have an excellent strong family. Acquire a lesson for many generations could not "learn" your predecessor: banning small, woman often loses! And referring to the male visual interest calmly and with humor, it makes men respect. And by the way, the desire: warmed fantasies imagination very well affect the level of attraction.
Bored bathrobe
Noticing that her husband is interested in others, his woman may decide to dramatically change their behavior: change the style, hairstyle, mannerisms or even cosmetic surgery. All this in order to visible and contrasting changes in the man revived extinct desire. If it happens at the same time, it can cause the opposite effect: instead of native house wife meets a man almost a stranger woman, quite unlike the one he once loved.
Therefore, change in itself is worth only what you are not satisfied with itself, and which has repeatedly hinted earlier husband . By the way, it's probably be quite banal, but ineradicable things (like all is annoying even as examples, but continued his victorious march to the hearth, worn gowns).
Method winners
And try to turn into a young girl should not. First, still will not work. And secondly, the young can win with the help of another to show that you know your husband that he is dear to you, you love him and think is best, and not just sit at home and require no one else to watch.
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